![[LIFE] E33. The Death By Disappointment Cocktail + 4 Other Gifts From the Marriage that Completed its Assignment at Year 9.](https://s3.castbox.fm/cf/8d/30/c7d06e37affd9a1f9a1ccbe9febe67a2a5_scaled_v1_400.jpg "[LIFE] E33. The Death By Disappointment Cocktail + 4 Other Gifts From the Marriage that Completed its Assignment at Year 9.")
[LIFE] E33. The Death By Disappointment Cocktail + 4 Other Gifts From the Marriage that Completed its Assignment at Year 9.
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How is it that y'all just keep getting me to talk about things on the pod in a way I don't anywhere else.
I tell on myself for 40 minutes -- allow the ways I showed up in my marriage to be a blueprint for you to make more useful, informed, powerful choices in your relationships.
Blame is easy. Responsibility is tougher -- and that's also where the magic is, where the transformation occurs and where you GET the gifts of your experience. I wouldn't trade a single experience of my life because I am absolutely obsessed with the woman I've become on the other side. This one can be filed in multiple places... relationship resilience, personal resilience, leadership, freedom... We cover so much.
In this episode I share:
- How I was able to exit my marriage from a place of love and how I can wish my ex well despite his actions.
- What to do if you find your relationship isn't nourishing you.
- How secrets and lies made eroded us from the inside out.
- The recipe for what I call the death by disappointment cocktail -- in which I break down the harm in settling/lowering your standards.
- The mindset that allows me to have zero regrets in spite of investing 15 years in a relationship that no longer exists.
- How being selfish is the key to creating collective wellness in your relationship.
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